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So, You Want to be a Foster Parent?
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There are some questions you should consider before you decide whether or not you want to be a foster parent. Taking a child into your home is a very important decision, and the following questions are designed to help you make a decision that is right for you

  1. How will my lifestyle change if I become a foster parent?
  2. Do I have the time and energy to care for a foster child?
  3. What age child will realistically be best for my family?
  4. Am I ready to give up some of my freedom, or arrange my lifestyle to include a child?
  5. Can I afford my own expenses, knowing that compensation for having a foster child will be only enough for the child's needs?
  6. How will being a foster parent change how I want to grow and develop?
  7. How much time am I willing to commit to a child?
  8. Am I willing and able to take a child to counseling sessions, doctor's appointments, court hearings and other regular appointments?
  9. Am I willing to attend counseling sessions with the child?

How Does My Family Feel About Being a Foster Family?
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  1. Does my partner also want to share his/her life with a foster child?
  2. How about my own children?
  3. Have we discussed fostering as a family?
  4. Are we secure and stable enough to add a foster child to our family?
  5. Will this cause undue stress?
  6. Are we both ready to give the time and energy to a child?
  7. Will one of us invest more in a child than the other?
  8. Can we be a team?
  9. Could we share our love with a child without other family members becoming jealous?
  10. How will a child fit into our religious life?
  11. Are we willing to allow that child to pursue his/her own beliefs, or to choose not to attend church?
  12. How will my children accept another child into their lives?
  13. Do they want to share their rooms, toys, friends, and parents with another child?
  14. How will I feel about a child being removed from my home?
  15. How do I feel about the child's birth parents and the problems they may have?
  16. Am I able to understand that a child still loves his/her parents and that I should not interfere with this relationship?
  17. What does my family have to offer a child who needs a good, stable, loving home?
Requirements to become a Foster Parent in Maryland
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All potential foster parents, regardless of which agency is selected, must meet the same approval requirements set by the state. It is important to remember that the agency you select will be working with you during the approval process to assist you in meeting the requirements. You may be somewhat surprised at the thoroughness of the approval process and the length of time it takes to become a foster parent. Please keep in mind that caring for someone else's child will have an impact on your family life which will require some adjustments and a firm commitment on your part. The more informed we are about you and your family, the better able we are to place children appropriate for your family. Following are the basic approval requirements.

  • Have respect for and interest in caring for children and families.
  • Be 21 years of age or older.
  • Own or rent your own house or apartment.
  • Be either single or married.
  • Applicants are requested to submit an initial medical examination and reexamination every two years for every member of the household to determine their physical and emotional ability to care for children.
  • Applicants are requested to provide three references regarding their parenting ability.
  • Be able to meet your family's financial obligations.
  • The applicant's home will be inspected by personnel from the health department for safety and sanitation, and by the fire department.
  • A minimum of two visits to the applicant's home is completed by the approval worker to discuss the types of children most appropriate for them, the proposed sleeping arrangements and the family lifestyle.
  • Every member of the household 18 years or older must be fingerprinted for a criminal background check.
  • Applicants are required to complete a minimum of 27 hours of pre-service education.
  • Have a stable family relationship.
  • A child support clearance must be conducted.
  • Applicant must agree not to use physical punishment.
As taken from Maryland DHR website

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